Paula Cao of Cisco Systems in San Jose, California is your typical unfaithful carpet muncher. I am an attractive woman who was in a same-sex relationship with Paula Cao, but little to my knowledge it came as a shock as surprise how Paula Cao was hopping in bed with various other women (and even some men!) during our 3 year relationship. Thankfully, I did not head to the alter with his philandering beast Paula Cao. Woman (and probably even men) out there need to be cautions of Paula Cao and her despicable ilk.