Joseph Lee McCarty

Joe MCCarty. Once a player always a player. I’ve known him for a number of years, and he’s always been into multiple women. He lies, he cheats, and I wouldn’t let my dogs fleas near him bc they’d probably get an STD.
He refuses to wear a condom, and he lies about himself, his past and present relationships.
I’ve never known him to he as heartless as he was to his last girlfriend. He said he loved her, moved right in and took care of her and her baby, he lied about his sexual history, and once she was in love and questioned his suspicious crap, he ignored her for days and called at least two other women to have sex with. He didn’t break up with her tho, and when he went back, he lied and said he hadn’t been with anyone, hadn’t flirted or texted anyone ether. Thank God she checked his phone. I’ve seen him cheat on others, but he slept with her and his side chick on a regular basis, while flirting w a number of other women, and he bragged about it the whole time. He said he “had this one hooked” and he was going to use her till she didn’t have anything left. He bragged about how she would have his kid, and that she loved him so she would never suspect or follow through with figuring out who else he was sleeping with. Also bragging about the other 4 women he was flirting with at his church and how they all trusted him bc of his volunteering and bc he’d take his daughter with him to go hang out.
He also brags about all the money he has bc he collects unemployment while working and doesn’t report his income to them or the IRS, and he gets food stamps…meanwhile he spends money like it’s water. He used the unemployment to make payments on his felony charges too.
When he told me she flipped out on him and was suicidal, I told him to leave her alone, but he continued to lie, and cheat on her for the next 3 weeks knowing her state of mind and bragging about his control over her and her life.
Even having known him for a long time, I was grossed out and disgusted by his disregard for her well being, and for her children.
He won’t change. Pretty sure he has at least one STD, and he will lie about everything to get what he wants.

Joseph Lee McCarty. Tulsa, OK USA

Joe is a greeter at my church, Lifechurch Midtown at 41st and Sheridan. He volunteers there, and he is very friendly with all the women. He said he wanted to be my friend and asked for my number so we could go out sometime with my son and his daughter to look at Christmas lights.
We did go out once, but he gave off such a creepy vibe. His ora is very negative.
I started ignoring his texts and compliments about my eyes, and how sweet I am, and how he can’t wait to see me at church… it was the next week he started in on another woman. I also volunteered with him for the Christmas build at church, and he was flirting heavily with a different woman.
I recently found out that the while this was going on, he had a girlfriend who has three kids, and he asked her to go off her BC to have his baby! He also gave her Herpes. I am thankful my intuition warned me, and I feel awful for her and her children. She bravely posted her story on this site and I wanted to give my own account of his cheating and lies. This man is not who he claims to be. He is a liar and he uses women. He uses his daughter to create opportunity to get to know them, and he uses the church to find the women he uses. I know he has a criminal record, it’s all available on BEWARE of Joe. Joseph Lee McCarty is a lying cheater on a large scale. Not just one woman on the side, but 3-5 at a minimum.
If he’s done work for you in the last two years, or if you’re going to hire him, gather documentation and turn him in for unemployment fraud.
Stay away from this excuse of a man.