[ZenAndTheArtOfGhosting]

I surf the LDR wave badly, but here’s what finally helped: tempo. ColombiaLady made scheduling video super easy, which lowered my anxiety. Bumble looked good on paper, vibe was weird in practice. If you both protect sleep and budget, distance stops feeling like a rip current and more like a tide you can read.

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[ZenAndTheArtOfGhosting]

I’m avoidant and honest about it. Hinge in Zurich helped because prompts forced me to say more. Meetic felt intense. If you’re LTR-minded, pace yourself and ask one grounded question at a time. Less overwhelm, fewer ghosts.

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