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Oslo to EU is doable if you’re honest about travel. I’m queer, mostly dating women in Berlin and Copenhagen. Meetic felt… straight. Bumble was fine but fizzles. Hinge has better prompts and quicker first replies, especially in Copenhagen where folks actually read bios. Paywalls helped visibility for a week, then flat. Set your radius wider and be upfront about LTR.
21For queer women in CDMX, Her and Bumble Date beat the big “latin dating sites” for actual meets. Chispa skewed hetero; vibe wasn’t hostile, just not for me. Safety note: share live location with a friend, pick a café with staff who actually look up. Spanish opener plus one silly sticker, then text like a human, not a brochure.
16My girl’s a powerlifter; I’m a plant nerd. The rule is no “fixing.” When I pull weeds, she doesn’t redesign the backyard. When she lifts, I don’t program her sets. We show up for big meets and big repottings, then we get tacos. If you’re dating someone with different hobbies, choose witness over coach unless asked.
25Queer scene in Shanghai felt organized. Groups meetups first, then one-on-one if it clicks. Consent talk is direct, which I loved. Pay without making it a power move. If someone says they’re not out at work, respect that privacy. Don’t post selfies together on Moments unless they say okay. Cafés in Jing’an are perfect for low drama first hangs.
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