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Lived in Shenzhen, dated a bunch, learned fast. Green flag: they set a time and stick to it. Red flag: interrogation about salary before you even clink cups. Also, bios that say “no drama, no feminists” translate universally—left swipe. Sweet spot opener was asking about childhood snacks; nostalgia works across languages. Don’t joke about 996 unless they do first.

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Ten minutes in he asked my credit score. Twenty minutes in he asked my fertility window. Thirty minutes in he pitched a timeshare. I excused myself “to call my uterus” and never returned.

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Vegas report: dude showed up in a cape, said it was “his brand identity,” then tried to upsell me on joining his mastermind for “magnetic femininity.” I stayed for the free truffle fries and the astrology read he got hilariously wrong. Weird first date experiences are my cardio at this point.

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