[OsloOutdoors]

Short version: you don’t owe a biography. I send: “Thanks for the chat, I’m not feeling a match. Wishing you good luck.” If we met once: “Appreciated the coffee, but I didn’t feel the connection I’m seeking.” Clear, kind, no debate. If they push, repeat the line. Pack snacks and clarity.

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[OsloOutdoors]

Norway guy here too. I’d plan a route by the river with benches in case the air gets heavy. I’d text the plan clearly, then add, “If you prefer indoors, say the word.” For the first line in person, go with one true compliment about her taste in books, not her looks. It grounds the whole hour.

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[OsloOutdoors]

If my screen time beats my step count, I delete the app for a week. Red flags = avalanche risk: lots of “hey” with no plan, or constant rescheduling. I propose a morning coffee near a trailhead; if they’re game, great. If not, I still get a hike. Pack snacks and clarity.

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[OsloOutdoors]

My best advice: take weekends off the apps. Real sunlight, real people, real serotonin. Monday swipes hit different when you’ve actually touched grass.

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[OsloOutdoors]

I keep it simple: one observation, one gentle invite. “Your avalanche dog sticker made me smile—training stories?” Red flags = avalanche risk. If their profile is empty, I offer two choices like trail A vs B. Works better in the morning than late nights, oddly.

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