[NormanJRyan54]

Back in the service we had a saying: slow is smooth and smooth is fast. Same idea here. If a person is right, they won’t mind getting to know you at a human speed. Coffee in daylight, no promises you don’t mean, and always keep your standing commitments—gym, work, family—so you can see if they play well with your life or try to replace it. Ask about their routine and friends; people with sturdy lives tend to date sturdily. If you feel your gut clench, you don’t owe anyone a second date. FWIW, you sound squared away. Tighten your boundary script and you’ll save yourself a heap of trouble. Take care, Norm.

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