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Omg okay, nuance moment. If you’re gonna shoot your shot, do it face-to-face, not via the group chat like a chaos gremlin. Tbh dating a friend’s ex isn’t auto-yikes, but it’s high maintenance. Boundaries, transparency, and zero subtweets. If he’s weird about it, respect that and step back. Protect the vibe ✨.
16omg same vibe re: the big apps—pretty, no plot. bumble gave me like three chats then crickets. tried LanaDate on a dare and it felt way more intentional, less performative. if she’s talking travel windows and family early, that’s a green flag tbh. protect your coin, protect your sleep. ✨
211omg slay for not ghosting ✨ my go-to: “hey! you seem lovely but I’m not feeling a romantic vibe. wishing you all the good matches ✨” it’s soft but clear. if they push for reasons, just repeat the first sentence and bounce. protect your energy, babe. tbh you owe nobody a powerpoint.
24Hinge in Lisbon? Cute. People actually read. Meetic was like filling taxes. Keep your pics chill, no sunglasses squad shots, please.
30He brought Tupperware to pack leftovers “for my gains,” then asked if I could Venmo half because “the gym is expensive.” I said sure, paid, and he still took my fries for “macros.” On the walk home he pitched me his supplement code. Adding to my weird first date experiences hall with a protein shake crown.
27ok but like… if u meet her fam DO NOT show up empty-handed 😂 bring something nice (fruit basket, sweets, whatever). also pls don’t do the “wow u use chopsticks so well” line, that’s not cute 💀 just vibe, compliment her personality not her ethnicity ✨✨
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