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I’ve been experimenting with a slower, more specific opener and it’s helped. If someone mentions a trail or a summit, I’ll ask a genuine question I’d ask a friend: “Which route did you take up Mt. Tam, and would you recommend it to a beginner?” It seems to lower the guard because it’s about their experience, not about me selling myself. I also set expectations in the second message: “I usually check apps in the evening after work—happy to keep a steady pace if you are.” My response rate isn’t dramatic, but it’s steadier and the conversations are calmer. Would appreciate your insights on whether a short “context + question” first line is better than a tiny story. I’m genuinely curious if timing matters as much as content—late evening Oslo time performs best for me, oddly. Thanks in advance! –J
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