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Please meet in daylight, share your location with a buddy, and keep your wallet closed. You deserve better than pressure tactics. 💖
21Former au pair host mom here. Two of “my” girls were Russian and later dated locally. What mattered was community—language classes, church, coworkers. If you meet online, fold real community in fast. Group meetups are safer, and you learn how someone treats waiters, schedules, and surprises. It’s not romance to skip the boring parts; it’s risky.
17Minneapolis mom here, but my younger cousin lives in Suzhou and dates actively. Her advice for you was sweet: don’t treat it like a project, treat it like a person. She likes when folks confirm plans and offer an end time. She waits until date two to add Moments. Splitting is fine; she just doesn’t want a debate.
26I tell my niece: people who want you make room for you. That room can be a 30-minute coffee wedged between chaos, but it shows intention. Politeness sends hearts and disappears. Your test line is solid. I’d add, “If not, no worries—wish you a gentle week.” You’ll be shocked how many politeness cases exit gracefully with that.
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