Norm, from one desert grandmother to a retired Navy gent: bless that slow-and-steady heart. I call it porch pace. Say it plain in your profile: “I’m into Sunday markets, not rollercoasters.” That screens sprinters fast. My first dates are coffee plus a grocery run; you learn plenty in produce. Safety: meet daytime, share plate numbers, trust your gut. Dating over 60 isn’t a sprint, it’s a nice stroll with sunscreen and comfortable shoes.