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One tiny tactic: co-write a mini itinerary for the first meet. Pick two cafes, one bookstore, a backup plan if trains are late. It sounds nerdy, but it reduces anxiety and makes space for chemistry. Screenshots of tickets and a shared calendar go a long way in LDR land.
12Former au pair host mom here. Two of “my” girls were Russian and later dated locally. What mattered was community—language classes, church, coworkers. If you meet online, fold real community in fast. Group meetups are safer, and you learn how someone treats waiters, schedules, and surprises. It’s not romance to skip the boring parts; it’s risky.
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