She flirted with an engaged man, my fiancé. We had already paid for the wedding and been together for five years. She claims its all my fault for getting cheated on and said it’s not her. She is still talking to him and him and I were trying to work on things. It’s funny because before she messaged my fiancé flirtatiously and innapropriately we were completely fine. She says it’s because I gained weight and was emotional. Well I hope she never gets pregnant or has cancer because he will leave her for being too emotional and overweight. The month before he met her, he talked to me about our future and how much he loves me and wanted to grow old and have kids. She wants to do the nursing program at Southern Oregon University set she is cruel and heartless. She also does drugs and alcohol.